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Emergency Fund Planning: Don’t Assume Expenses Will Go Down
One of the more common questions in financial planning is how much to save for an emergency fund. It’s sort a personal question, really, I mean the answer to the equation is personal. Some people feel quite comfortable with three months of basic expenses set aside for a rainy day. Others, like me, have a goal to save one year of basic expenses in the event I lose my job, or am unable to work.
What are Basic Expenses?Regardless of your goal in terms of the number of months you prefer to have saved, you must first conduct the important exercise of listing your current expenses, and then identifying which of those you would cut in an emergency. What’s left is often referred to as “basic” expenses. Consider things like electricity, car insurance, gasoline, food, and of course, rent or mortgage payments.
In my family we have agreed a number of things we pay for today could be easily dropped tomorrow if we lost our income. The gym membership would have to go. Cable and other entertainment options would be eliminated. I’d probably keep Netflix because streaming movies and television shows is such a cheap entertainment option. I’d also keep internet access and at least one cell phone active for job searching, networking, etc.
Conventional wisdom is that our monthly budget would actually go down considerably if we lost our income. Not so fast.
Accounting for New (Increased) ExpensesIt wasn’t until I performed the exercise of listing our current expenses and then putting together our “emergency” budget that I realized our expenses would actually go up; not down. This concerned me because I had always assumed I needed less emergency fund since we’d be reducing our monthly expenses in an emergency.
I had not considered things like COBRA insurance, a costly way to keep health insurance coverage for up to 18 months (even longer, in some scenarios) after separating from your employer’s plan. I asked around and found out that COBRA can run as much as $1,500 a month for full family coverage. Essentially, you are paying both sides of the insurance premium, where your employer used to pick up a substantial portion of the costs.
Sure, you may be able to ultimately find a cheaper health insurance plan, but for the first month or two you are probably going to be preoccupried while scrambling to find work.
So even after cutting the cable, reducing our entertainment budget, and eating beans and rice all month, there was little chance I could make up for the increased costs of COBRA. But that wasn’t the only increased cost to consider.
Imagine if you were laid off in 2009, when gasoline for the average family worked out to about $173 a month. In less than a year, your monthly budget for gas budget would have increased to $281.06, an increase of over $100 a month. Sure, if you weren’t working you wouldn’t be commuting, but job hunting would still have you out and about burning gas. Today, many households are paying over $400 a month for gasoline.
Also be sure to account for food inflation. If your household grocery budget looks like mine, it seems we are constantly having to raise our food category. Not necessarily because we are buying more, but because the prices have gone up while the product sizes go down. Corn has almost doubled in the past 12 months.
When planning how much to keep in an emergency fund, don’t assume your post-emergency expenses will be significantly lower than your current expenses. In fact, it might make sense to save x number of months times a small increase to your regular expenses.
If you normally spend about $3,000 a month, and aim to save 6 months of expenses, normally you would anticipate a healthy savings balance of $18,000 to cover you. However, one could make an argument for rounding that up to $20,000, or even assuming a new $3,500 per month budget and saving $21,000 in an emergency fund.
I do believe you can save too much in an emergency fund, because money in excess of one year of expenses should probably be exposed to more risk, and therefore more opportunity for growth, than a money market account. However, I’ll finish this post the same way I started it–saving for emergencies is personal, based largely on your individual budget, and you and your family’s appetite for risk.
If saving 18 months of expenses helps you sleep better at night, then by all means, build that cash stockpile. If you and your spouse’s jobs are steady, you have other investments you could liquidate penatly free (Roth IRA contributions, etc.) and you’d like to only save up 3 months of expenses, then only save 3 months of expenses. Just be sure to save adequately for those three post-emergency months by not underestimating new expenses.
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Categories: Family and Finacial Planning
Home Exchange: A Frugal Quid Pro Quo
What do Cameron Diaz, Kate Winslet and I have in common, you ask? Aside from ravishing good looks, we share an interest in home exchanges. Cam and Kate’s new movie “The Holiday” follows the exploits of two strangers who decide to swap their residences in Los Angeles and England. I am about to take the plunge and sign up as a house swapper too.
I may be a wee bit travel-obsessed. I devour travel books and magazines and spend hours on tripadvisor.com looking at hotels in Suriname and Morocco that I will probably never visit. So when a friend of mine recently mentioned that she is a veteran home swapper, my interest was greatly piqued.
Simply put, a home exchange is when two parties agree to trade homes for a pre-determined interval. There are many types of agreements, including simultaneous and non-simultaneous exchanges, hospitality exchanges, and exchanges with a vehicle option.
Home swappers normally pay a fee to join a home exchange service, but there is no charge for accommodations once a swap is agreed to by both parties.
The concept of home exchange has been around for a long time, but dedicated websites have taken the home exchange concept to a new level. There are many websites dedicated to introducing prospective home swappers to each other. Some have huge databases of potential exchanges, while others focus on niche markets such as luxury homes or home swaps for singles.
The Upside- Cha-Ching! Your family can visit countless destinations and pay nothing for accommodations, beyond the nominal fees charged by the exchange service.
- Local Flavor: You can live like a local by drawing on your exchange family for tips on cultural events, restaurants, shopping, and attractions.
- No Hotel Hassles: You will be immersed in a community rather than being warehoused in a bleak hotel with impersonal service.
- Free Wheels? You may be able to negotiate the use of the exchange family’s car, avoiding pricey rental car fees.
- Convenience: When you stay in someone’s home, you will have use of the kitchen, computer, laundry room, DVD player, toys and games, bookshelf, etc. Cooking and washing at home are huge money savers and all the other items are gravy.
- Camaraderie: You may develop personal connections and long-lasting friendships with other home exchange families.
- Safety: In many cases it is safer to have visitors in your home rather than leave it unoccupied during your vacation. Home exchangers can alert you to any problems that arise during your absence (e.g., leaky roof) and their presence will serve as a deterrent to burglars.
- Free Pet-sitting: Your exchange family may be willing to babysit your pooch while you are on vacation saving you expensive kennel fees.
- Time Suck: It can be difficult and time-consuming to find a suitable exchange property. The sheer volume of listings can be overwhelming, and factors such as location, party size, travel dates, and home amenities and quality can make finding an appropriate exchange a chore.
- Ick Factor: It might give you the heebie-jeebies to have a stranger in your house or to stay in the home of a stranger.
- False Advertising: Inaccurate property descriptions are said to be uncommon, but are always a possibility.
- Tough Sell: Homes in resort or tourist destinations are obviously easier to trade. If your home is in the middle of a wheat field, you might have a harder time attracting potential swap partners.
Normally homeowner’s policies remain in force during a home exchange. This is because visitors are considered guests as opposed to renters, since no money changes hands during a home exchange. Likewise, car insurance normally covers drivers that are using your car with your express permission.
It’s a good idea to check the details of your specific homeowner’s or auto policy or speak to your insurance agent before committing to an exchange. It’s also acceptable to include parameters for the use of the vehicle such as mileage or travel restrictions and minimum age for drivers.
Most swaps are simultaneous, meaning the two parties occupy each other’s homes over the same time period. However, there are also plenty of non-simultaneous swaps available, especially since many people use their vacation homes for exchanges.
A hospitality swap is when you visit another party’s residence, while they are home—essentially as their houseguests. The type of swap you arrange depends on many factors, including the flexibility of your travel dates, your preferred destination, and personal preferences.
Trust, but VerifyThe entire principle of home exchange is based on trust: trust that the homes will be as advertised, that both parties will adhere to the stated timeframes and conditions, and that the properties will be cared for responsibly during the stay. Most veteran home exchangers report that the degree of mutual trust and respect is quite high, and negative experiences are rare.
The most important factors in ensuring a positive home exchange experience are good communication and thorough research. Exchanging details about the properties and researching the area to be visited will keep surprises to a minimum and leave both parties satisfied.
Where to StartThere are loads of home exchange sites on the Internet, but a few popular sites are:
- homeexchange.com
- ivhe.com
- homeforexchange.com
- digsville.com
- homebase-hols.com
For newbies like me, it’s also helpful to get advice and tips from experienced exchangers. There are numerous blogs on home swapping, such as homeexchangeguru.com, which provides valuable insights and information.
Now for the hard part—deciding between an apartment in Amsterdam and a cottage in Scotland…
This article was written by contributing author Laurel Gray.
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